Saturday, November 3, 2012

Getting a little political--response to Huffington Post article

I just had to respond to an article today I read at the Huffington post (http://www.huffingtonpost.com/helen-c-whitney/romney-mormonism_b_2068070.html). I hope you'll take the time to read through my response and make an educated and informed decision on Election Day, rather than just listening to one side of things. Thank you.

1. Just the fact that Romney chooses not to brag about the countless hours he has spent as a church leader serving others should tell you something. He will never brag about it. It is not what members of our church do. We volunteer more hours to alleviate suffering and donate more money (percentage-wise) to the poor that members of any other church in history and here we are being punished for not bragging about it. Just know that every time there is a huge disaster, we are near, we are helping, and we expect NOTHING for it.  Case in point—CNN story yesterday about a lady who had lost everything (Michele McComb) http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fOQWix3J92Y&feature=plcp About 3 minutes into the interview, there is a picture of her surrounded by Mormon missionaries and not one of them is capitalizing on the opportunity (not one sign, not one t-shirt) to get Romney elected. It’s a non-issue for them as their lives are all about serving others and saving the one. Romney was greatly affected by his mission, he mentions it as being a time that either destroys your faith or deepens it and in his case it deepened it which will benefit everyone in this country if he is elected president. Before you decide Mormons think Romney is completely perfect, we don’t, we believe there was only one Man ever to walk the face of the earth that was perfect and he was the Son of God. The rest of us imperfect people are doing the best we can, trying to help others along our way.

2. I am not a subordinate in our church. I feel an equal in every way. In many ways, I think our church leaders are more in tune with the needs of women than anyone. It is a great mistake to think that gender equality means women should become men and vice-versa. Men and women are divinely different. That difference is important. It is how children are raised with the best of both worlds. This confused movement in America concerns me. Our church’s Family Proclamation tells you all you need to know about what we believe as far as men and women’s roles go. http://www.lds.org/topics/family-proclamation?lang=eng  You can disagree with us, but I assure you, anyone living by the principles therein will greatly benefit you and your posterity. It is a sad day when society pretends to help the poor by placing abortion centers in every poor neighborhood they can (ethnic cleansing anyone?), and telling women they have to go take all the jobs from men and throw their kids into daycare to be a truly fulfilled women. So now more women than men have college degrees, fewer men are working and 90% of single parents are women so they have managed to not HAVE it all, but rather DO it all. Is that gender equality? As for old white males being in charge of our church, it is true that for the most part older, white males make up the leadership in Salt Lake City but that is changing too and it is definitely not a requirement. We believe God calls these men to lead us and in leading us, they mostly just love and serve everyone they can, just as any disciple of Christ would. Take a look at our most recent General Conference and listen to what the leaders of our church have to say. http://www.lds.org/general-conference/sessions/2012/10?lang=eng  And as for race in our church, one of my family’s closest friends in the church through the years has been with an African-American family with four children. The love God, family, country and are some of the best people we know (of any color).

3. Remember when I said we don’t think Romney is perfect? Well, this was one of those moments he could have said things a little better, a little more sensitively. I don’t believe for a second that he would let the poor suffer to reward his rich friends. After serving as a Bishop and Stake President in our church he knows all too well how great the need is for compassion to the poor and suffering. He put in so many hours in those callings responding to the needs of the poor and suffering and it was completely without pay. He knows how to work hard to make money, but he also has seen the pain of those working hard who still do not make money. Yet he sees policies  in place now that are doing nothing more than extending the pains of the truly suffering and rewarding things like apathy and indolence. I can’t believe the leaders of this country would rather terrify people that change means no more handouts when instead change could mean education, independence, and real happiness. Our church has one of the best run welfare programs on the planet. Check out http://www.philanthropyroundtable.org/topic/excellence_in_philanthropy/a_welfare_system_that_works Please take the time to read this. And then this: http://www.lds.org/liahona/2009/03/the-celestial-nature-of-self-reliance?lang=eng&query=feeding+birds+welfare  Families and nations would benefit so much from following the advice in this article.

4. Our church believes more in the separation of church and state than any other religion. Our church leaders will NEVER give any kind of “nod” to Romney. While the beliefs of our religion absolutely are part of Romney, our church has stayed completely neutral in this political race. There are very few churches that would have maintained that kind of distance. Of course, we are more visible now, yet people do not see us. It is strange to report the things we’ve had people say about us and to us and yet they make no effort to know us. Have you, reader of this lengthy comment, gone to any links I’ve provided? I hope so. http://www.lds.org/?lang=eng and http://mormon.org/ are both our Church’s official websites where you can find out from the source what we believe and then make up your minds, but rather people read little snarky comments here and there and form the basis of their beliefs. We invite people to make up their own (informed) minds about us—don’t we deserve a chance? A chance untainted by suspicion, falsehoods, and downright hatred—a basic mob mentality exists now coming from those who will not look and will not listen. Our church was one of the first to stand up against slavery in this country and our ancestors and early church leaders were hunted down, murdered and driven from their homes for it.

5. As mentioned before, our church does not believe Romney to be perfect. We do not believe ourselves to be perfect either. Our church is run by imperfect men and women—you will be able to find people in our church that do all sorts of terrible things. This is probably true of any church, any country, etc. We do believe that Jesus Christ was perfect and he suffered for all of our sins while He was here on the earth and He has made it possible for us to return to Him and God in Heaven. We believe we are His church restored to the earth and we do the best we can to try and serve Him and become Christ-like. As for requirements to enter our temples which are our most sacred buildings, you do answer questions regarding your honesty and worthiness. It is between you and God as to whether you are telling the truth or not. Most of us are doing the best we can and we assume that in others as well. There seems to be some great social punishment for being rich in this country and understandably so. The rich grind the faces of the poor and laugh while doing it. BUT there are rich people who are good people. Rich people who quietly help and serve. I know it would make Romney more palatable if he were poor, but he would be in NO position to run for president. You are kidding yourself if you think a commoner can become the president of this country anymore. I admire Romney for having such a great love for his country that he used his wealth to try and make a difference-- exposing himself, his family, and his church to open ridicule and hate. That takes a lot of courage, a lot of belief that he is doing this for the greater good. I don’t believe for one minute he is a dishonest businessman—I think people in general don’t understand economics and investments and he knows that. He knows everything can be twisted for political gain. I cannot understand this article that does not mention the blatant dishonesty from the other campaign. I believe Romney is generally a good and kind man who could do great things for this country. I think his ability to stop and listen to both sides and work in bipartisan manner is a great contrast from a president who passes executive order after order when he can’t get his way. This country was not designed for a dictatorship. To every voter in America--please don’t go down that path. Please see the country’s highest employee has not been very good at his job and let someone else try. I firmly believe Romney will give this country a fighting chance in a global economic downturn. Our children deserve that chance.